4 September 2022

Libido, Libido, Libido, wherefore art thou?

The primary hormones that affect sexual desire and libido are Testosterone (in men) and Dopamine (in women). You can Google those to find out how to supplement them. This is something that despite thousands of years of research, mankind still does not know how to “fix” it.

I am sceptical about the future of solving this with match and science. Sex is as easy as it is complicated. While science is hard at work on the physical brain, perhaps we can work on the spiritual mind. Someone once said, “the best sex is not sex, but the anticipation thereof.”

I am no specialist or therapist, but I have learned from my mistakes and victories. Here are 10 ideas, for activities to boost your libido, that does not require chemicals. (And you know many of them, but you just don’t always want to admit it).

  1. Get naughty. Buy toys. Watch a silly sexy movie, TOGETHER!
  2. Slippery when wet (no, not the Bon Jovi album). Sex is wet and there are going to moisture and odours. Just give into it. Your partner feels powerful and when you accept their “stuff”.
  3. Get out of the dark! The visual input is still the most powerful sensory adviser.
  4. Red-Light District. Once, my girl installed red bulbs all over the room with soft music. That role-playing as an escort service, silly as it may sound, was one of the best experiences we both had.
  5. Lights. Camera. Action. Record your own “porno”. Show off, Strip, tease, and engage. Then watch your performance and do some more “takes & angles”. It’s a lot of fun and a creates excitement for part 2.
  6. Spray and paint. Get some oils and lube, and body paint. Create your masterpiece, and then eat it!
  7. Don’t stick to a time and a place. If that libido stirs, jump on each other, I mean at the opportunity, my bad. Guys, face it, you are always ready. So, when your woman “rings” that bell, that’s your queue. She will ring it again when you expect it least (think back-seat of the car or while watching Games of Thrones)
  8. Speaking about places (and this one you also know), get in the car and go somewhere. Picture a cabin in the woods or a flat by the sea, get some wine, and draw the curtains.
  9. Positions. That one goes without saying. Google is your friend.
  10. Watch and learn. Tell your partner to do their thing as you watch. Let them become the one you dream of.

I leave you with a great quote:

“Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn’t sex, but the passion with which it is practised. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim.”
― Paulo Coelho

10 August 2022

In today's world, we are fortunate that there are remedies, both medicinal and herbal, that can help us with issues such as impotence and premature ejaculation. But there are also many foods that can be beneficial to this specific issue. And most of it has to do with blood flow to the sex organs. The following compounds are known to increase blood flow: Zinc, Carnitine, L- Arginine and quercetin. Many of our products on chao.co.za contains L- Arginine. Click here to see a list.

  Add these foods to your diet for great results

1. Oysters

The high zinc in oysters increases blood flow.

2. Meats

Most meats contain Carnitine and L-Arginine.

3. Salmon

The healthy Omega-3 acids in Salmon, helps to prevent plaque build-up in the arteries.

4. Nuts and seeds

Nuts and seeds are packed with zinc.


Searching for foods with these key ingredients, can go a long way to a healthier sex life without and kind of pills.

5 august 2022

Did you know?

Sildenafil, the active ingredient in Viagra, was first patented in 1996.

Legend has it though that the Chinese stumbled on this, decades, possibly centuries before that. According to the legend a Chinese emperor had many wives, and it was expected of him to have many children. The emperor was unable to perform at such level. His scientists set out to find a solution. Through years of studying animal and plant ingredients, and many tests, they eventually created a natural remedy that did exactly what the emperor required – an erection booster.

With time, this formula was perfected and with modern equipment and science made its way into a small convenient, condensed, and concentrated little tablet.

As far as record goes, OTO CHAO was the first pill that was formulated in this way. Today there are hundreds of brands with the same effect as Viagra, but just much cheaper

Noticeably, our best sellers are Kamagra, The Blue Pill and Big Man Hard.

Here's some more information about erectile Dysfunction